Spend Less…Travel More

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A Day of Sightseeing, No Spending. Floating Market, Bangkok
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The Beautiful Sourire Lobby, Bangkok
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Eat Local! Nasi Lemak for .25 cents. Trust me, a delicious, satisfying meal.
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Penang to Bangkok. 21 hours. $16 each for sleeper cars.
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Our room at the Merchant Hotel, Penang.
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Finishing up a full breakfast at Sourire Hotel, Bangkok.
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This shuttle bus was free and took us all over Penang!
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Memories are Priceless!
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Tuk Tuks are fun but know where you want to go!

This could be the BOLT motto.  We are on a very tight budget and are learning to live and travel within our means.  No credit card debt, mindful choices and lots of research are key. Our type of travel is not for everyone. If you are intrigued by fearless, serendipitous and penniless adventure, here are some helpful tips :

♡ Stay in small, non-chain hotels. Booking.com is great for finding affordable accommodations.  Know what you want and carefully read details and reviews.  We want private rooms and private bathrooms and are willing to pay for them. You can find hostel type situations for much less. We are just not comfortable with sharing sleeping space or bathrooms,  at least not yet.
The most we have paid this trip is  $70 a night for our hotel in Singapore, the most expensive city in the world.  Our average is $35 a night for beautiful rooms in central locations, with breakfast included. Lesson learned : check for elevators! In Singapore we had to carry all our luggage up 5 flights of steep stairs!

♡ Use public transportation.  Our BOLT rule is “taxis only if we have luggage”. Otherwise we have had wonderful experiences using local buses, trains and tuk tuks.  We also walk as much as possible.

♡ Eat with the locals. Some of the best meals we have had are from street vendors and small food stalls. We’ve paid 3-4 times as much for the same meal at the more touristy spots. We take daily probiotics to protect our tummies. 
Getting hotels that include breakfast is another great way to save.  We have started the practice of a nice, big breakfast;  a substantial lunch out; and a small dinner  (fruit, nuts, yogurt) in our room. So far, so good!

♡ Buy a Steri-pen and sturdy water bottles.  Traveling in Southeast Asia is thirsty work.  Disposable bottles of water are expensive and harm the environment.  Our $70 purchase of a state of the art Steri-pen allows us to sterilize tap water. We store the bottles in our hotel room fridge and are set for the day.  Avoid sodas, alcohol and other beverages if you really want to save.
http://www.steripen.com › ultra

♡ Buy less. Do you really need another sarong, handbag, or necklace?  Does  Auntie really need that souvenir  keychain, coin purse or ashtray? If you know me then you know I love to shop. The suggestion here is to shop less not to never shop. I am learning to look at the fabulous batik skirt I want and ask myself would I prefer the skirt or another night of travel or museum visit.  It also helps to shop away from the tourist areas. We saw the same $10 floating market skirt for $3 in Bangkok central.  I am also learning that the first price stated is far from the price you can end up paying.  Be willing to haggle. It’s fun!

♡ Watch out for scams! We learned this lesson a little too late. We experienced this common Bangkok scam.  While walking  to a well lit temple, we were stopped by a very friendly Thai gentlemen who told us that the temple had closed for the night.  But “It was our lucky day!” he informed us. We were told that because it was a  holiday we could get a special government Tuk Tuk for only 40 Baht.  This tuk tuk we were told would take us anywhere we wanted to go. Having earlier paid 100 Baht for a taxi we thought this a great deal and jumped into the ‘special’ tuk tuk he summoned.  In reality the temple we wanted was not closed, there was no special tuk tuk deal and we spent the day be taken to places we had no desire to see (gem stores, suit makers). Turns out this is the most common of Bangkok scams. We didn’t figure it out until 2 days later when the same scam was attempted on our way to the National Museum.  This time we knew the museum was open and we figured out the scam. I have to say it was a very gentle scam and the tuk tuk driver was very nice.  But a little research would have saved us!
http://http://www.bangkokscams.com/top-10-scams-in-bangkok/

Well, that is all for now.  Hope you found something helpful. We are off for our last day in Bangkok.  And NO, the Grand Palace is not closed.

Repositioning Cruise: 3.5 BOLT Stars

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BOLT has been off the ship for 5 days now. We’ve had some time to reflect and evaluate our experience on our Holland America 30 day cruise from Seattle to Singapore.

For the last 5 days we’ve had to arrange and obtain our own transportation, lodging, meals and activities. These are all things the cruise lines do very well. But BOLT is looking for more than just comfort and convenience. We’ve developed a little ratings system of 1 – 5 stars (*) to share our opinions on seven criteria with you.

Accommodations? *****
Cruise ship cabins are small but we never felt cramped or claustrophobic. The cabin stewards are wonderful, coming in twice a day with fresh towels, ice and anything else you need. There is so much public space on the ship that all you really need the cabin for is sleeping, bathing and dressing. My favorite spot for relaxing and reading was the sunny lido deck on the top of the ship. Kathy loved the jazz bar where she would take her computer and spend time with our fellow passengers. We both enjoyed the library area, lots of books and games available. Every public area had big windows so you could always see the ocean.

Food? ***
Lots of it! Healthy options! A multitude of choices!
But I have to say that after 30 days I was pretty tired of it. Kathy and I preferred the Lido buffet where you could get pretty much all the offerings from the main dining room. I liked that even though it was buffet style the majority of the food was behind glass and was served to you. I think that kept us healthier and there was also less waste. Breakfast, lunch and dinner were also served in the beautiful main dining room. Every once in a while we enjoyed this more formal setting. There were also daily teas (yucky), an ice cream bar (yummy) and a pool side spot where you could get burgers, hot dogs and fries. They had the best vegetarian portobello mushroom burger ever! The best thing about cruise ship food is that it is included in the price of your cruise, even room service is available at no charge. Most of the lines have added ‘specialty’ restaurants where you can pay for a meal. We had two included nights in the Statendam’s specialty restaurants. I do not think either meal was special and would not recommend these spots.

Value?****
This rating is based on how much bang do you get for your buck? We figure we paid about $83 a day per person. Take into account this includes all our food, room, maid service, entertainment and travel to 12 exotic places. We can and do travel for less but not in such grand style.

Cultural Relevance?**
We crave new experiences, sights and sounds. We do not enjoy shopping, water sports or large commercial tours. Cruise ships offer lots of those type activities in port. We prefer to get off the boat and walk into town. We love meeting new people and learning about new cultures. We enjoy visiting religious buildings and museums. We did what we could when in port but the time allowed is brief. On board ship the nightly shows were Vegas style revues, magic and comedy shows. We went to a few and were underwhelmed. During the day there were lectures about various topics. I really enjoyed the ones on the ports of call and the series on hula.

Lesbian Friendly?****
If you want a queer experience a repositioning cruise is not for you. The passengers were mostly heterosexual married couples with a fairly big group of single travelers as well. We are out everywhere we go, unless safety is an issue, and the ship was no different. We danced together, held hands and introduced each other as our partners.
Everyone on the cruise was very friendly and we experienced no problems.

Elder Appropriate? *****
Cruising, especially these long repositioning cruises, are perfect for the older traveler. We were actually two of the younger people on board. We were pampered, and did exactly what we wanted, when we wanted. We met many seniors who cruised constantly.

Black Folk?*
The B in BOLT is for black. Seeing and connecting with other black people is important to us. This doesn’t determine where we decide to travel, but we do look for and enjoy meeting other black folks as we move through the world. Of the 1300 ship passengers there were 8 black people (including us) I think there 5 black crew members. Most of us made it a point to smile, make eye contact and speak. We felt the Black love, no matter how small our numbers.

Land Ahoy!

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There is a special sense of excitement that happens when we approach land after long days at sea.  Arriving in the Philippines was especially so. Many of our wonderful crew members are Filipino and as soon as we started moving past the many Philippine Islands the air was electric with their excitement.  The smiles on their faces grew broader and broader as we neared the port of Puerto Princessa.  As we neared the dock everyone was on deck. We were welcomed by traditional Palawan dancers and a great rendition of the Whip/Nae Nae!  Kathy and I spent a lovely morning walking and exploring the town.  We came back on board for lunch and were delighted to find that many of the crew had been joined by their families.  We were proudly introduced to spouses, mothers and children. After lunch we went back out for a wonderful adventure on a Tuk Tuk!  We rode for miles through the countryside, seeing lush jungle and small farms.  We visited a butterfly garden, learned a little about traditional Palawan culture, walked through an aviary and ended our day on a pristine beach. Salamat  (Thank You) to our Filipino hosts for a perfect day.

To see more pictures of our Puerto Princessa, The Phillipines adventure visit our BOLT Facebook page.

As I finished writing this  (we just arrived in Malaysia ) we see news about the typhoon and terrible flooding in the Philippines.  Our thoughts and prayers are with the people there.

BOLT : LEARNING, LOVING AND LAUGHING

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Banyan Tree, Honolulu
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Banyan Tree, Hilo
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Banyan Drive
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Sistah Love!
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Keoni, Gaia Metaphysical Center, Honolulu
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Ms Statendam
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Tubing the Ditch, Kauai
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Black Old Lesbians Tubing : Safety First!
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My Own Personal Wave Pool!
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Our Proud and Beautiful Indonesian Crew!

Travel is such a great opportunity to make new friends, learn new things and have new experiences.  BOLT has been doing just that.  Our time on the Hawaiian Islands was wonderful!  I fell in love with banyan trees and learned that these enormous and beautiful trees are found all throughout Aisa and the Pacific Islands.  Look closely at the pictures and you will see that the roots grow from the top down! 

Kathy and I had a grand time on Honolulu.  I reconnected with my dear friend, Natasha, and we made a new friend, Keoni.  Be sure to visit his place, Gaia Metaphysical Center, when in Honolulu. 

In Kauai we had a little excitement.  A two and a half mile tubing trip down an old sugar plantation irrigation ditch.  We were surrounded by lush green jungle,  went through pitch black tunnels and came out to look at jewel like sky. Just enough adventure for two Black Old Lesbians Traveling.

We’ve been on the ship for 5 days since Hawaii.  The seas have been quite rough.  I found out that rough seas turn the pool into a wave pool.  A lot of fun and I usually have it all to myself.

50% of our crew is Indonesian and I am loving learning more about their nation.  The put on a show last night with traditional and popular song and dance from Sumatra,  Bali and Java.  It was so moving when they sang their nation anthem and announced that they are celebrating 70 years of independence from Holland!  I’m even learning a little Indonesian.  Terima Kasi (Thank You) for reading our blog and Sampe Jumpa  (See you later!)

6 Days at Sea!

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Hula!
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4 times around the verandah deck is one mile.
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The swimming pool is warm and uncrowded.
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Reading the New York Times in the library.
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Sunset from the Lido Deck.

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On the bow this morning as we arrive in Honolulu.

Multiple days at sea on a repositioning cruise may not be for everyone but I have loved our time on the Pacific. The average age on this 30 day trans Pacific cruise is probably 75. We have counted 5 other black passengers (out of 1300) and very few people of color overall. Everyone has been very nice and friendly and there is much to do. The best thing for me has been relaxing and having no schedule to keep. I swim daily, we both walk a mile or so on the verandah deck, eat delicious food and spend lots of time reading and enjoying each others company. I even took a hula class and participated in a Hawaian stage show! Kathy is enjoying the library. The is a movie theater, casino and nightly stage shows. We haven’t been bored yet. So far this repositioning cruise has been I hoped for and more!

Stay Well and Stay Gone

Kathy shared with me this morning that those are now our two responsibilities.   We soon depart our hotel in Seattle for Holland America’s Statendam!  Next stop Vancouver, B.C. We are excited beyond words.  My cup truly runneth over with gratitude, love, joy and blessings.  Thank you EVERYONE for your words of encouragement and love.  Looking forward to sharing more soon.

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The Make it Work way of Travel.

One of the most asked questions about our trip is “How can you afford to do this?”

First off I believe you can have almost anything but you cannot have everything. But even if you don’t believe that all you have to believe to have a trip around the world is believe it is possible. Without that belief all the work isn’t worth the effort. And let me say now it is work. You must prepare to travel. And to travel full time you must prepare a lot.

So let’s do it step by step.

  1. Stop spending on things that do not fit your goal of full-time travel. That means not spending money on concert tickets when that same money can be saved for whale-watching in Baja for example. You may want to start asking yourself how many lunches that fifty dollar dinner could buy you in Mumbai. (Hint: a lot). Saving money for the future may not be easy, but if you want to travel freely you must find a way to save more money than you do now.
  2. Downsize. Get rid of things you do not use. Sell them and put the money in your savings account. Marci and I had a couple garage sales. We made about $3000. That of course includes selling all our furniture, and household goods. But even before selling our house we downsized. We started giving things away. Once you make up your mind you are traveling you will see several things you can not keep and will not need and do not use. Any item you own that falls into either of those three categories will eventually need to go away some how. We are in the process of giving away one of our cars for example.
  3. Get a credit card. Or two. Marci and I have three. Make sure they are cards with travel rewards mostly known as miles. Even though the airlines and the courts have made using miles an exercise worthy of a PhD candidate there are still a few ways to get a nice bit of bang for you buck. So get a miles card. The best one (read: most bonus miles for least effort) you qualify for first then get another one and maybe even a third. Here’s how one guy used this tip.
  4. Plan a trip. The most exhilarating way to begin building travel into your life is to plan a dream trip. Here is one of my dream trips.
  5. Begin. The thing is the sooner you decide that travel is what you want the easier everything else becomes. These suggestions no longer look like sacrifices or hard work but instead become the first few steps toward your first trip.

BOLT in L.A. More Treasures

For some reason all my pics didn’t post the first time (I’m still learning y’all).  Don’t want to leave out these treasures.

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Anything with friends at the L.A . County Fair!
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The Beautiful Spheres at MacArthur Park.
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Don't Miss the Spheres!
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El Cholo Restaurant on Western : Still the best Mexican food around!
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Kenneth Hahn State Recreation Area
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The Hiking and Walking Trails at Kenneth Hahn State Recreation Area

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Kenneth Hahn Lake

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Flower Pavilion at the Los Angeles County Fair

BOLT in L.A.: Treasures!

During our last few weeks here in Los Angeles I thought it would be nice to visit some of my favorite spots.  I have lived in Los Angeles for 60 years, this photo essay highlights only a few of my new and old favorites.

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The Name Says it All!
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Morning Walks at Pan Pacific Park
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Saint Sophia Greek Orthodox Cathedral
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More Saint Sophia, Breath Taking!
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Flavor Table Restaurant on Florence, Best Breakfast in L.A.
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Medusa! This hip hop artist is a true L.A. Treasure!
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Best Place to Spend a Day of Self Care!
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Lemiert Park
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Always Something Happening in Lemiert!
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Really! Always Something in Lemiert!

6 Truths at Sixty

Reaching the milestone of my sixtieth birthday seems to call for some sort of wisdom sharing.  One post I saw shared sixty things the writer felt important to share at sixty.   The six things I will share have profoundly impacted my life and indeed make the life I choose possible.  I feel they will be especially helpful to affirm as Kathy and I prepare to embark on our new life of “home free” world travel.
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The first truth is this this: THESE ARE ONLY MY TRUTHS.  Kahlil Gibran says “Say not I have found the truth, but rather I have found a truth.”  My perceptions, my ways of doing things, my beliefs are not the only ones nor the right ones.  Remembering this makes me more respectful and tolerant of other’s views.  It also makes me more open to new “truths”.

My next truth is that YOU CAN HAVE ANYTHING BUT YOU CAN’T HAVE EVERYTHING.  Knowing this makes home free travel sustainable, compromise possible, and letting go desirable.  Kathy and I often remind each other “the first rule of travel is you can’t do it all.”

A most valuable, if difficult truth is that PEOPLE ARE NOT WHAT THEY SAY, THEY ARE WHAT THEY DO.  I have learned to accept that if our words don’t match our actions then our words mean nothing.  Today I try to be a person who actions truly speak louder than my words.  I am learning to watch the actions of others with love and compassion and accept them for who they are and encourage them to work toward who they say they want to be.

A hard learned truth is that PEOPLE PLEASING IS FUTILE. Trying to please people is exhausting and after all that hard work it always fails.  I spent much of my life trying so hard to be liked by everyone.  The problem is that this left me no time to learn to like my self.

This truth logically followed: CHOOSING ME IS NOT SELFISH.  Somehow I got the message that saying no, practicing self care or doing things that I wanted to do was selfish.  Letting go of people pleasing opened my up to the joy of choosing me.  For today I try to say no to events, people or situations that do not serve my highest good.  I spent at least one day a week in my pajamas doing exactly what I want to do.  I move, eat and try to rest in ways that nourish my body and my spirit.

A very wise woman gave me my last truth. WHEN I AM POINTING MY FINGER AT YOU, FOUR FINGERS ARE POINTING BACK AT ME.  For today I am trying hard to judge less and love more.  This includes being more gentle and accepting of myself as well as others.  I am trying to leave judgment to those better qualified (God, the Universe).

So, as I leave you with my truths (for today) I hope you find something helpful.  It certainly helped me getting it out.  After all, if you can’t tell your truth at sixty, when can you?

Marci Halili Akoma 9-6-15